tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post2317695168424939531..comments2023-08-01T08:18:31.174-04:00Comments on Everyday Kings: 2 monthsVeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05819788859577010155noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-73446991628174278542011-01-19T22:12:04.075-05:002011-01-19T22:12:04.075-05:00I stumbled across your blog thru a mutal person we...I stumbled across your blog thru a mutal person we follow. <br /><br />My heart aches for you. I have no words other than I will pray for you. <br /><br />I know that you said sometimes reading other blogs are not comforting to you, because of the anger you feel but a blog I have been following for over a year now and feel you may one day when you are ready read. http://bandssullivans.blogspot.comJust Us & A Miracle Baby too!https://www.blogger.com/profile/13822344214164422235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-71424660307186198012011-01-18T17:44:51.027-05:002011-01-18T17:44:51.027-05:00I also heard about you through Gucci's blog. M...I also heard about you through Gucci's blog. My heart aches for you and your family. I am holding you all close to my heart and keeping you in my thoughts. XXOOMichelle Pixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266765257859122453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-13450621921000093582011-01-17T19:43:47.814-05:002011-01-17T19:43:47.814-05:00Ps 34:18 "The Lord is close to those whose he...Ps 34:18 "The Lord is close to those whose hearts have been broken. He saves those whose spirits have been crushed." <br />I know it may seem like God is no where to be found, but I promise He knows every detail of your life and He's with you every step of the way. Thought you might like this youtube video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_e4zgJXPpI4<br />I've been in your shoes, and I remember what it felt like to have your world fall apart around you and to lose hope in anything ever being right again. In the midst of your grief I encourage you to let Jesus hold it all together. You don't have the strength right now, but He does.<br />BeckyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-91811207719314038542011-01-17T11:43:09.773-05:002011-01-17T11:43:09.773-05:00I stumbled upon your blog today (via Rollin' w...I stumbled upon your blog today (via Rollin' with the Rooneys), I am so very sorry about your loss.<br /><br />I live in Macomb Township and remember clearly the day I heard you on 95.5 while on my way to work, I cried the entire way and once I got to work my bosses and cw's were concerned about me and I remember sharing your story with them and other friends because it just broke my heart for you and your children.<br /><br />You are in my thoughts and prayers, you are a beautiful strong woman and it is so unfair that you have to go through this.<br /><br />I'm your newest follower.Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04935572039912318899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-30235901082263480142011-01-16T12:29:11.952-05:002011-01-16T12:29:11.952-05:00I heard about your story through Karen's blog....I heard about your story through Karen's blog. My heart hurts for you so much. I will be clicking often on both Pennies and Gucci. You and your family are in my prayers.Marlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06867428737055305800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-7453748032558082552011-01-16T12:27:57.283-05:002011-01-16T12:27:57.283-05:00I found out about your heartbreaking story through...I found out about your heartbreaking story through Happenings on Chaos Ranch and I am crying as I read this post. I can't begin to imagine how much you have lost and what it takes for you to simply wake up each morning and continue on with your life when the love of your life is no longer beside you. I don't have children and I sometimes think that if anything were to happen to my husband I would simply cease to exist as he is my world and I would have nothing else to carry on for. You have to be strong however because of your two little one and little Carter growing inside you. I don't know but I imagine that however hard it seems having your children to continue a daily routine for may be a blessing and a saving grace as they are something so precious you created with your husband and their very existance will prevent you from simply curling up and losing yourself in your grief.<br /><br />My heart aches for you and I will continue reading and clicking from several thousand miles away. xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-3334170101047249342011-01-16T01:26:49.562-05:002011-01-16T01:26:49.562-05:00Hello. You've never met me, but I know of you ...Hello. You've never met me, but I know of you through someone else, and was told about your blog. Try not to be creeped out. :] For the past two months I've read, and prayed, and thought of you and your babies a lot. I know that when someone is grieving, people want so badly to help, but I know that I can't. As a wife, and a mother, I feel horrible about how everything you know has been turned upside down. It's not fair.<br /><br />Even though I don't know you personally, I feel like maybe I should open up a little bit. Not only have I read your blog, but I've read a lot of your friends' blogs who are widows. My marriage was hard for a long time. We started out very young, and had our first child right away. There was a lot of resentment that built up for various reasons. For the last year I've been wanting to work at getting back to a place where I wasn't resentful. Reading your blog, and many others has made me so very appreciative for what I have, and has pushed me to let a lot of things go. <br /><br />I don't want to say the tacky and inappropriate, "things happen for a reason", that's not what I mean. But because of what happened you have shared your story, and you have helped at least one person. You may have saved a marriage, you may be saving five, or helped someone in another way completely.<br /><br />Your husband's memory will live on in all of your good deeds in his name. <br /><br />You feel horrible, but you are doing your best. I'm so proud of you for building a support group. I'm sure that they will be your life line. <br /><br />I just wanted you to know that you've helped, and now Jeremy's life has had a significant impact on a stranger's life.<br /><br />Much love. We're praying every day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-40466897469876355422011-01-15T18:07:42.422-05:002011-01-15T18:07:42.422-05:00I found your blog through Pennie's on a Platte...I found your blog through Pennie's on a Platter. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-31936534702540817072011-01-15T14:52:20.185-05:002011-01-15T14:52:20.185-05:00I'm stopping by from Karen's blog today. ...I'm stopping by from Karen's blog today. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm sending you a bloggy hug and kind thoughts. And now I'm off to click on Pennie's on a Platter.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13719194021742927603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-44060976423394017102011-01-15T14:32:45.095-05:002011-01-15T14:32:45.095-05:00My heart breaks for you! I'm so sorry about y...My heart breaks for you! I'm so sorry about your loss and wish I could offer you words of comfort. Praying for you.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01640871678908297706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-66980835213110304692011-01-15T14:25:26.248-05:002011-01-15T14:25:26.248-05:00Oh Vee Baby, you are so strong, brave and inspirin...Oh Vee Baby, you are so strong, brave and inspiring. I believe that your husband is full of life, love and work...you just can't see it. I feel like if we were truly able to open our eyes, we would be able to recognize all of the heavenly help we are getting every day. He is working hard and oh how he loves you still.<br /><br />xox.Little Miss Paigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12721390256066777388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-22572791061685871872011-01-15T12:29:09.030-05:002011-01-15T12:29:09.030-05:00Praying for you every day, Veronica!
--Denise Cam...Praying for you every day, Veronica!<br /><br />--Denise Cameron (McArthur)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-31991466415931164132011-01-15T10:18:09.826-05:002011-01-15T10:18:09.826-05:00I was sent here from A Peek at Karen's World a...I was sent here from A Peek at Karen's World and will be visiting Pennies on a Platter, too. I'm at a complete loss for words. You have suffered an unimaginable tragedy. My heart goes out to you and your children.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04589606390781637262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-20807022816801134092011-01-12T14:31:41.030-05:002011-01-12T14:31:41.030-05:00......
sending prayers.
- agata.......<br /><br />sending prayers. <br /><br />- agata.white collar | green soulhttp://www.whitecollargreensoul.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-16215815549329713152011-01-11T10:21:25.060-05:002011-01-11T10:21:25.060-05:00I can't say I know how you feel, in regards to...I can't say I know how you feel, in regards to losing your husband, but knowing what happens after losing a child, I can tell you for certain that you will survive - especially after Carter arrives!<br /><br />That little boy is going to bless your life in so many ways, and in a small way, he will bring a piece of Jeremy back to you.<br /><br />I know that sounds strange, and really, it's hard to explain, but my world came crashing down when my daughter died. However, when her baby brother was born, not only did I get the joy of knowing him, but it was like a little piece of her was given back to me.<br /><br />I'm sure you will see little pieces of Jeremy in Carter, whether it be in his looks, his personality... something will be there. And even though it won't make you miss Jeremy any less (because really, why should you?), you will be able to find a little smile again, knowing that Carter came from the love that you share.<br /><br />Hang in there!Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08158575371887263944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-82593182776677443512011-01-11T00:40:44.979-05:002011-01-11T00:40:44.979-05:00I heard about you through Gucci's blog. I am s...I heard about you through Gucci's blog. I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your children are in my prayers. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-5757033411182895982011-01-11T00:27:19.480-05:002011-01-11T00:27:19.480-05:00I'm clicking and praying for you too. Just wa...I'm clicking and praying for you too. Just wanted you to know that there are a lot of folks out here that you'll never hear from that know about you and your kids and care about y'all. Take care. <br /><br />Hugs and Much love, <br /><br />SharonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-82377243379558707222011-01-10T23:00:22.159-05:002011-01-10T23:00:22.159-05:00I cant remember if I commented the first time I sa...I cant remember if I commented the first time I saw your story just a week or so after Jeremy's death. I lost my dad in a plane crash two weeks before my 18th birthday. I will never forget the horrifying days. I was the oldest child at home at the time with two younger siblings and I remember that weekend after the crash trying to help my mom figure out a weed whacker. :) We were a mess as we sobbed and screamed at the stupid thing. <br /><br />Five years later I was married and had my first child. My husband was a seminary student at the time. Then, another seminary wife's husband died very unexpectedly of cancer. She was 4 weeks pregnant with their first baby. Through that tragedy I became friends with her. It took 3 1/2 years for God to heal her broken bleeding heart, and she still grieves daily for her husband...but something miraculous happened. My husband and I were sent several states away upon his graduation and I strong armed her into joining the internet dating site, eH@rmony. Well, just as she was about to cancel her membership after only a couple months, she met a man...two hours from my house several states from where she lived!!! She married him last may, is expecting her second child, and we see each other at least once a month. Absolute miracle. <br /><br />I still cry myself to sleep too many times to admit because my superhero died. I know my mom still does. I know you will too even 15 years from now. But I pray bit by bit God gives you miracles of happiness and provision.Melrosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08439670225934244188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-12190810995592402852011-01-10T22:47:29.336-05:002011-01-10T22:47:29.336-05:00Veronica,
I was just worshipping with you at renov...Veronica,<br />I was just worshipping with you at renovate this weekend and listening to your angelic voice and I just kept thinking how? How and Why is she up there singing to God? After all you have been through and so recently! How are you able to get up there and sing praises to Him and not be so unbelievably angry? I had a miscarriage 7 years ago and I am not at all saying that that compares in anyway to the loss you have endured. But I do know some of the feelings that come with the feeling of loss. I remember thinking how angry I was with so many things, God, the world for not stopping and grieving with me, commercials of pg tests and ovulation calculators and birth control, just people being happy in general! I was a good person and did not deserve this in anyway. People let me grieve for about 2 months and then "they" decided it was time for me to get over it. I couldn't get over it, I couldn't live. I did not know HOW! One day I did what I thought would lead me to my death, the unthinkable....I screamed and had it out with God. I poured every bit of my being out to Him and really let Him have it. I told Him all that I was feeling. I was sure He would strike me dead right then and there for Noone speaks to Him like that and lives! I didn't care, He had let me down and He was going to hear it no matter what the consequence. It took many months after that day but now that I look back, that was the first day that I really started to heal. The sad thing is there is no human on this earth that can help you through this, of course you can have good friends and family, even your children, to lean on but for true healing it is so very personal and God is the only one that can and will heal you. Let yourself feel all that you are feeling, you have permission and are allowed to have every feeling....God put them in you! Vee, somehow someway in time God will bring you through this...I know you don't want to hear any of this but God is using YOU to touch people and bring them back to Him. You can't see it right now but it's happening. Of all the things we saw at renovate, the teachings, the 321 improv, the lessons by David, the Jesus Painter..YOU are what moved our teen group above everything else! You may not know this yet, and it will take much emotion before you can look back on all of this but eventually you will look back and see it. Thank you for teaching us! If you ever need to vent or talk with a stranger, but sister in Christ, you can email me at my personal email at csego@att.net. It's all because of Him, much love to you!<br />Cathy Sego<br />Southland C of CUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00157242434903028293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-31219090858838919192011-01-10T22:16:06.736-05:002011-01-10T22:16:06.736-05:00Vee,
I find the need to "check" on you ...Vee, <br />I find the need to "check" on you often. I can't imagine how you are hurting, or what you are going through. Stay strong, keep your babies close, and take care of yourself for the little love that is coming into your life soon. <br /><br />We, your blogging "friends" are loving you and sending you all the support we can. Lean on us, lean on your friends. They want to help you, and may not know what you need. Tell them. Tell us. Whatever you need, I and the others who send you messages here honestly do care about you.Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17010526851317243420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-89504661105137721822011-01-10T20:50:04.602-05:002011-01-10T20:50:04.602-05:00Veronica, read this and Just keep breathing.
http...Veronica, read this and Just keep breathing.<br /><br />http://www.aholyexperience.com/2011/01/how-to-just-keep-breathing-on-a-monday/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-27478220832783207012011-01-10T18:46:43.454-05:002011-01-10T18:46:43.454-05:00There are times when I don't know how to pray ...There are times when I don't know how to pray over certain situations because I just can't imagine how it can be made better, or what God can possibly do with such a mess, but I still do, saying "Lord, you know." And I've seen him do amazing things after horrible brokenness. I can't see the "other side" for you, but I keep praying God will carry you during all the grief and heartache that has to come on the way.The Jessie James Ganghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07433580155783525724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-45740949926522370472011-01-10T18:27:35.577-05:002011-01-10T18:27:35.577-05:00Vee,
You are in our prayers!
Crystal <>...Vee, <br /><br />You are in our prayers! <br /><br />Crystal <><Mrs. Sewellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08524801969660873521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-714965286134674662011-01-10T17:32:03.714-05:002011-01-10T17:32:03.714-05:00Can't imagine what you are going through. Pray...Can't imagine what you are going through. Praying for you and that God's love will envelope you daily.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1166658235135692088.post-72947014358978713372011-01-10T16:03:06.062-05:002011-01-10T16:03:06.062-05:00I never know what I say but I always just want to ...I never know what I say but I always just want to comment to let you know that I'm thinking and praying for you and your babies.gvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17702089938287377034noreply@blogger.com